A couple of weeks ago, I loaded up my cow pony and headed to Minnesota. I had signed up for the Top Hand Cowgirl Challenge at the Strait Rail Ranch near Nevis. Maybe not such a big deal. Lots of women toss their favorite horse in a trailer and go chase cows or cans or trail ride. They do it on a regular basis.
But it was a big deal. For me.
You see, I’m good at dreaming of doing things. Not so much carrying through.
And I was scared to death. I hadn’t ventured out on my own for a very long time. Hadn’t hauled a horse more than 50 miles in 20 years. And not by myself. I had never competed in pen sorting or cutting. I am not good at ranch trail or ranch pleasure. And, oh my lord, I had not run a barrel pattern since I was a teenager!
Was I too old? Too out of shape? Too overweight? Were my clothes wrong? Would the other women think I did not belong there?
Yes, I was overweight and out of shape. Some of the other women were, too. I was one of the older riders. I didn’t ride nearly as well as the majority of the others.
But it didn’t matter. Because I was there. And I was riding and learning and having the time of my life. I was encouraged not only by Breck, Allie, and Jan (the producers of the show) but by the other competitors. We cheered the cowgirls who were experienced and did well, and those whose horse had never seen a cow before and simply got close to the herd. And it didn’t matter if we rode a Quarter Horse, a Welsh Quarter Pony, or a Thoroughbred. It didn’t matter if we showed on a weekly basis or had never competed before. If we were 9 years old, or 78 years old.
And, if I am honest with myself, as much as I love riding the sweet mare Mark bought for me, love the thrill of chasing a cow, the best part of the weekend was the fellowship, spending time with women I knew and meeting 60 plus new friends.
And I did it. I didn’t just talk about it. I did it!
And I can’t wait to do it again!